: Checklist
| # | Activity | Experience Before | Giver/Receiver | Willingness | Notes & Nuances |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Abrasion | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 2 | Age play | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 3 | Anal sex | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 4 | Anal plugs (small) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 5 | Anal plugs (large) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 6 | Anal plug (public, under clothes) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 7 | Animal roles | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 8 | Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders) | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 9 | Aromas | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 10 | Asphyxiation | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 11 | Auctioned for charity | No | Sub | 4 | |
| 12 | Ball stretching | Yes | Sub | No | Out of stock |
| 13 | Bathroom use control | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 14 | Beastiality | No | Sub | No | |
| 15 | Beating (soft) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 16 | Beating (hard) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 17 | Blindfolds | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 18 | Being serviced (sexual) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 19 | Being bitten | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 20 | Boot worship | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 21 | Bondage (light) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 22 | Bondage (heavy) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 23 | Bondage (multi-day) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 24 | Bondage (public, under clothing) | No | Sub | 4 | |
| 25 | Branding | No | Sub | No | |
| 26 | Breast/chest bondage | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 27 | Breast whipping | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 28 | Breath control | Yes | Sub | 4 | only if I know you, and trust you. |
| 29 | Brown showers (scat) | No | Sub | No | |
| 30 | Bruises | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 31 | Cages (locked inside of) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 32 | Caning | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 33 | Castration fantasy | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 34 | Catheterization | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 35 | Cattle prod (electrical toy) | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 36 | Cells/Closets (locked inside of) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 37 | Chains | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 38 | Chamber-pot use | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 39 | Chastity belts (short term) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 40 | Chastity belts (multi-day) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 41 | Chauffeuring (driving) | Yes | Sub | No | I don't drive |
| 42 | Choking | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 43 | Chores (domestic service) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 44 | Clothespins | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 45 | Cock rings/straps | Yes | Sub | No | Out of stock |
| 46 | Cock worship | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 47 | Collars (worn in private) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 48 | Collars (worn in public) | No | Sub | 4 | It has to mean something, if it's worn in public. |
| 49 | Competitions (with other Subs) | No | Sub | 1 | I don't really have the competitive spirit. |
| 50 | Corsets (wearing casually) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 51 | Corsets (trained waist reduction) | No | Sub | No | |
| 52 | Cross-dressing | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 53 | Cuffs (leather) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 54 | Cuffs (metal) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 55 | Cutting | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 56 | Diapers (wearing) | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 57 | Diapers (wetting) | No | Sub | No | |
| 58 | Diapers (soiling) | No | Sub | No | |
| 59 | Dilation | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 60 | Dildoes | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 61 | Double penetration | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 62 | Electricity | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 63 | Enemas (for cleansing) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 64 | Enemas (retention/punishment) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 65 | Enforced chastity | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 66 | Erotic dance (for audience) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 67 | Examinations (physical) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 68 | Exercise (forced/required) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 69 | Exhibitionism (friends) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 70 | Exhibitionism (strangers) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 71 | Eye contact restrictions | Yes | Sub | 4 | If you're prepared for me to break them |
| 72 | Face slapping | Yes | Sub | No | |
| 73 | Fantasy abandonment | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 74 | Fantasy rape | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 75 | Fantasy gang-rape | No | Sub | 4 | |
| 76 | Fear (being scared) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 77 | Fisting (anal) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 78 | Fisting (vaginal) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 79 | Flame play | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 80 | Following orders | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 81 | Food play (cucumbers, sorbet...) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 82 | Foot worship | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 83 | Forced bedwetting | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 84 | Forced dressing | No | Sub | 2 | |
| 85 | Forced eating | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 86 | Forced homosexuality | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 87 | Forced heterosexuality | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 88 | Forced masturbation | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 89 | Forced nudity (private) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 90 | Forced nudity (around others) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 91 | Forced servitude | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 92 | Forced smoking | No | Sub | 2 | Not really forced |
| 93 | Full head hoods | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 94 | Gags (cloth) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 95 | Gags (inflatable) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 96 | Gags (phallic) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 97 | Gags (rubber) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 98 | Gags (tape) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 99 | Gas masks | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 100 | Gates of Hell (male) | No | Sub | No | Out of stock |
| 101 | Genital sex | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 102 | Given away to another Dom (temp) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 103 | Given away to another Dom (perm) | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 104 | Golden showers | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 105 | Gun play | No | Sub | No | |
| 106 | Hairbrush spankings | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 107 | Hair pulling | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 108 | Hand jobs (giving) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 109 | Hand jobs (receiving) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 110 | Harems (serving w/other subs) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 111 | Harnessing (leather) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 112 | Harnessing (rope) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 113 | Having food chosen for you | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 114 | Having clothing chosen for you | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 115 | Head (give fellatio/cunnilingus) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 116 | Head (recv fellatio/cunnilingus) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 117 | High heel wearing | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 118 | High heel worship | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 119 | Homage with tongue (non-sexual) | No | Sub | 2 | |
| 120 | Hoods | No | Sub | 3 | |
| 121 | Hot oils (on genitals) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 122 | Hot waxing | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 123 | Housework (doing) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 124 | Human puppy dog | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 125 | Humiliation (private) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 126 | Humiliation (public) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 127 | Hypnotism | No | Sub | 2 | |
| 128 | Ice cubes | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 129 | Immobilization | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 130 | Infantilism | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 131 | Initiation rites | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 132 | Injections | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 133 | Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 134 | Interrogations | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 135 | Kidnapping | No | Sub | 3 | |
| 136 | Kneeling | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 137 | Knife play | Yes | Sub | 2 | No breaking the skin |
| 138 | Leather clothing | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 139 | Leather restraints | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 140 | Lectures for misbehavior | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 141 | Licking (non-sexual) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 142 | Lingerie (wearing) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 143 | Manacles & Irons | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 144 | Manicures (giving) | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 145 | Massage (giving) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 146 | Massage (receiving) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 147 | Medical scenes | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 148 | Modeling for erotic photos | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 149 | Mouth bits | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 150 | Mummification | No | Sub | 2 | |
| 151 | Name change (for scene) | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 152 | Name change (legal, permanent) | No | Sub | No | |
| 153 | Nipple clamps | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 154 | Nipple rings (piercings) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 155 | Nipple play/ | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 156 | Nipple weights | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 157 | Oral/anal play (rimming) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 158 | Over-the-knee spanking | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 159 | Orgasm denial | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 160 | Orgasm control | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 161 | Outdoor scenes | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 162 | Outdoor sex | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 163 | Pain (mild) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 164 | Pain (medium) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 165 | Pain (severe) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 166 | Persona training (in scene) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 167 | Personality modification (RL) | No | Sub | No | |
| 168 | Phone sex (serving Dom) | Yes | Sub | 0 | |
| 169 | Phone sex (serving Dom's friends) | No | Sub | No | |
| 170 | Phone sex (commercial provider) | No | Sub | No | |
| 171 | Piercing (temporary, play-pierce) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 172 | Piercing (permanent) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 173 | Plastic surgery | No | Sub | No | |
| 174 | Prison scenes | No | Sub | 3 | |
| 175 | Prostitution (public pretense) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 176 | Prostitution (actual) | No | Sub | No | |
| 177 | Pony slave | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 178 | Public exposure | No | Sub | 2 | |
| 179 | Punishment Scene | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 180 | Pussy/cock whipping | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 181 | Pussy worship | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 182 | Riding crops | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 183 | Riding the horse | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 184 | Rituals | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 185 | Religious scenes | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 186 | Restrictive rules on behavior | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 187 | Rubber/latex clothing | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 188 | Rope body harness | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 189 | Saran wrapping | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 190 | Scarification | No | Sub | No | |
| 191 | Scratching - getting | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 192 | Scratching - giving | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 193 | Sensory deprivation | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 194 | Serving | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 195 | Serving as art | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 196 | Serving as ashtray | No | Sub | No | |
| 197 | Serving as furniture | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 198 | Serving as a maid | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 199 | Serving as toilet (urine) | Yes | Sub | 0 | Not in my face, not in my mouth. Ever. |
| 200 | Serving as toilet (feces) | No | Sub | No | |
| 201 | Serving as waitress/waiter | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 202 | Serving orally (sexual) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 203 | Serving other doms (supervised) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 204 | Serving other doms (unsupervised) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 205 | Sexual deprivation (short term) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 206 | Sexual deprivation (long term) | No | Sub | 2 | how long is long term? |
| 207 | Shaving (body hair) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 208 | Shaving (genital hair) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 209 | Shaving (head hair) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 210 | Skinny-dipping | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 211 | Sleep deprivation | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 212 | Sleepsacks | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 213 | Slutty clothing (private) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 214 | Slutty clothing (public) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 215 | Spandex clothing | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 216 | Spanking | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 217 | Speech restrictions (when, what) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 218 | Speculums (Anal) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 219 | Speculums (vaginal) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 220 | Spitting | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 221 | Spreader bars | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 222 | Standing in corner | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 223 | Stocks | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 224 | Straight jackets | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 225 | Strap-on-dildos (sucking on) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 226 | Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by) | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 227 | Strap-on-dildos (wearing) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 228 | Strapping (full body beating) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 229 | Suspension (upright) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 230 | Suspension (inverted) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 231 | Suspension (horizontal) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 232 | Supplying new partners for Dom | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 233 | Swallowing feces | No | Sub | No | |
| 234 | Swallowing semen | Yes | Sub | 1 | Clear test results required |
| 235 | Swallowing urine | No | Sub | No | |
| 236 | Swapping (with one other couple) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 237 | Swinging (multiple couples) | No | Sub | 1 | |
| 238 | Tampon Training (in ass) | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 239 | Tattooing | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 240 | Teasing | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 241 | TENS Unit (electrical toy) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 242 | Thumbcuffs (metal) | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 243 | Tickling | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 244 | Triple penetration | No | Sub | 3 | |
| 245 | Urethral Sounds (metal rods) | Yes | Sub | 0 | |
| 246 | Uniforms | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 247 | Including others | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 248 | Vaginal dildo | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 249 | Verbal humiliation | Yes | Sub | No | |
| 250 | Vibrator on genitals | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 251 | Violet Wand (electrical toy) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 252 | Voyeurism (watching others) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 253 | Voyeurism (your Dom w/others) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 254 | Video (watching others) | Yes | Sub | 2 | |
| 255 | Video (recordings of you) | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 256 | Water torture | Yes | Sub | 1 | |
| 257 | Waxing (hair removal) | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 258 | Wearing symbolic jewelry | Yes | Sub | 5 | |
| 259 | Weight gain (forced) | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 260 | Weight loss (forced) | No | Sub | 0 | |
| 261 | Whipping | Yes | Sub | 3 | |
| 262 | Wooden paddles | Yes | Sub | 4 | |
| 263 | Wrestling | Yes | Sub | 0 |